I'm not sure that's even a word. Thank you, Bradford, God of Hyphens.
I'm tripping on how wonderful it is to have my wife home most of the time. Sarah went part-time at her job, based on economics, plus her desire to go back to school to finish her undergraduate degree. If I come home from school right after classes are over, I'm home between 2 and 2:30 in the afternoon. Most days, Sarah is home around 3. This is awesome!
For the past couple of years, Sarah's been getting home around 6:30. From a spending time with kids, and getting dinner ready standpoint, this is awful. Especially when I'm in rehearsal for a show and have to leave at 6:15 for a 7:00 call. During Hamlet, I'd be lucky to see her for 15 minutes before a show. Hamlet being a really long damn show, by the time I came back home, both boys were asleep and Sarah was in bed, keeping better company with Anderson Cooper and his ilk. What a drag.
Now, with Cuckoo's Nest coming to a close, hanging out with my family is something I look forward to, a real treat I plan on enjoying immensely (like cookie dough ice cream). It's something I'll try not to EVER take for granted.
On the other hand, I'm getting a dose of double-barrelled reality: how tough being a dad is, and how amazingly strong Sarah is. How she did dinner, bathtime, story-reading, bed time, laundry folding AND everything inbetween while I was gone is mind boggling. She is so much stronger than I am and a true testament to the power of the woman/mother. Since she's going back to school, Wednesday night is my night to feed, bathe, bottle, entertain and bed the boys. (Sometimes it even works.) Wow.
My wife is my hero. And she's super hot. Like, hot with a cape. Like, my hero (see the connections?)
For the forseeable future, I'll be home with Sarah and the boys, doing the daddy thing full time. In all honesty, it's going to be tough tough tough to get back on a routine I've only seldom really settled into.
I can't wait!